Some people have to cross seven seas to be one with the One they love. But the final joy is precious that it cannot be described in words.
You know friend, when we go through sufferings its like a never ending road. One problem after another. Sometimes it feels like the end. Have you felt the lump in your heart when you are going through tribulations. I have and its the worst feeling of loss I never ever want to experience. But yes My life keeps telling me "There is daylight after this night. You need to sleep only 8 hours, the rest of the day is yours", but yeah to reach the daylight esp from a never ending night can be sometimes excrutiating.
My dear, you also dont worry. Lets sleep through this night somehow. There is the Sun waiting with the goodness. Need to sleep, else we will be tired to enjoy the day.
This is what happens to most of us. We are so scared, tired, worried, anxious that we cant sleep and when the light falls on our eyes we just cant enjoy, we are much too exhausted.
Hold on there Friend. We will make it.
Monday, August 17, 2009
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Celebrate the Moment
I was talking with my sister the other day. It was about her marriage. She is crazy about her husband and ofcourse my bro is too. She said, "Chechi, I am not so excited about the marriage since I know my sweet heart for the past 2 years." Mind you she is crazy about him, but just that there is not surprise. They have planned each aspect well ahead for the ritual. And ofcourse she knows him well. I told her, marriage is a one time luxury. You need to make it as sweet and memorable as ever. This is the greatest thing in any human beings life - Finding a life partner.
Our tongue is the strongest muscle in the body. Its not only physically strong but it also controls who you are. The more negative you say, the mind prepares your body to be that. The person who has learned to control his tongue, I bow my head to them.
Each good things that happens in our life we should celebrate it with fire crackers, thunder and lightening, no matter how small it may be. If you are good cook you will know this. Your food becomes as tasty as the celebration you put in making it. The outcome is only the final flame.
A day passes by only once. Cherish it. Jump, Run, I dont know, do something even if your mind says "Why are you this happy? Many have done better things than this. You should do better." I agree you can do better but you have already done this much, so go and dance, call your loved ones and enjoy that moment. Friend, this moment will never come again.
Our tongue is the strongest muscle in the body. Its not only physically strong but it also controls who you are. The more negative you say, the mind prepares your body to be that. The person who has learned to control his tongue, I bow my head to them.
Each good things that happens in our life we should celebrate it with fire crackers, thunder and lightening, no matter how small it may be. If you are good cook you will know this. Your food becomes as tasty as the celebration you put in making it. The outcome is only the final flame.
A day passes by only once. Cherish it. Jump, Run, I dont know, do something even if your mind says "Why are you this happy? Many have done better things than this. You should do better." I agree you can do better but you have already done this much, so go and dance, call your loved ones and enjoy that moment. Friend, this moment will never come again.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Priorities
Its been a ride from The Lagoon to The River to The Sea. Each phase of my journey has been a sweet bitter memory. I will not say it was a horror reel but yes the journey is never easy and I am not expecting it to be anything smooth further.
There was a time when my world was toys and games. Envying and fighting for the toys the other kid had that she would not share with me the first day she got the toy.
Then it became the pimples that would sprout once in a blue moon. Dont mistake me I NEVER HAD PROBLEM WITH PIMPLES but it was not having them, that was my issue. I considered having pimples a sign of maturity. All teens had them except poor me.
Then came the boys. How to attract a boy was then my big on the list?
I wish I was again back to my childhood. Yes, I enjoyed enough that I dont have any regrets. I also had my share of problems. But it was a bliss to have childhood.
I have moved on from the lagoon to stream to river now. I find rowing through the river a little bit more hard than previously. I am in the process of building a ship or something for myself and, yes, now it includes my teeny tiny JoAnna. The Ever Busy Body. I am glad to have her for the ride. She makes my journey purposeful and less difficult.
See friend, the one thing you should know is that, this journey is not easy but if you have a straw to hold on for yourself, then grab on to it with your life. Let me tell you, that can make a difference.
I have not seen anyone without a refuge. I have seen many that deny that refuge. Life is a long-short journey. Collect as many jewels as you can in your path. Treasure them. Then when you dont have the energy to row on, go into the treasure box and pick each jewel one at a time and reminisce the good old days. As the fuel empties and your ship wear out you will gladly dissolve into the salt of the sea.
BON VOYAGE!!!!!!
There was a time when my world was toys and games. Envying and fighting for the toys the other kid had that she would not share with me the first day she got the toy.
Then it became the pimples that would sprout once in a blue moon. Dont mistake me I NEVER HAD PROBLEM WITH PIMPLES but it was not having them, that was my issue. I considered having pimples a sign of maturity. All teens had them except poor me.
Then came the boys. How to attract a boy was then my big on the list?
I wish I was again back to my childhood. Yes, I enjoyed enough that I dont have any regrets. I also had my share of problems. But it was a bliss to have childhood.
I have moved on from the lagoon to stream to river now. I find rowing through the river a little bit more hard than previously. I am in the process of building a ship or something for myself and, yes, now it includes my teeny tiny JoAnna. The Ever Busy Body. I am glad to have her for the ride. She makes my journey purposeful and less difficult.
See friend, the one thing you should know is that, this journey is not easy but if you have a straw to hold on for yourself, then grab on to it with your life. Let me tell you, that can make a difference.
I have not seen anyone without a refuge. I have seen many that deny that refuge. Life is a long-short journey. Collect as many jewels as you can in your path. Treasure them. Then when you dont have the energy to row on, go into the treasure box and pick each jewel one at a time and reminisce the good old days. As the fuel empties and your ship wear out you will gladly dissolve into the salt of the sea.
BON VOYAGE!!!!!!
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Crazy Heart
Wish I had more control over my feelings. I see so many people with tough heart. Nothing affects them. They dont care about anything. "I dont care" is their attitude. Wish I was also like that. I am very sensitive though this is very short lived. I get hurt easily also become happy very fast. One bad thing about me is I can never forgive anyone sometimes that includes me. I make a mistake I will never ever forget it. Wish I was better.
I want to be someone with a dont care attitude. If someone is hurt I feel the hurt more than them. Thats bad. I have so much worries of my own to worry about.
We are all made differently, that should be the reason.
I dont like people who have no concern for others. Yet I am always meeting and socialising with such people. Its no more like school days where we have the choice to choose friends.
For some people, Any fault in their life has justification but in another its a crime. They keep complaining about things in their life but does not want a solution for their problem. I think they enjoy complaining. I have to admit I do complain but I take decisions to solve my problems. We should stop complaining and start making good decisions. Get over the bad and move towards the sun.
I hate gossip. If you come to me with complains about someone else I dont consider you a human. I am not interested in other persons life,including yours. You want to share your problems with me thats ok. I can also pray for your well being, but please dont come to talk about someone else. I dont want your opinion on the other person. I dont want to know his secrets. His marriage. Nothing. Even when I dont want to hear these, people keep saying things and I have to listen many times. Thank fully I have a gift, I only hear what I want to hear and keep only that in my memory.
I met a man who said there are so many fans for you. hhahahahaha...I really wanted to laugh out loud when he said that. Wish I was in college. If someone would have told me then these lines, I would have been on clouds. But now life has taught me better. I walk on burning coal. Everyday I am scared about tomorrow and having fans is something laughable.
From one of my experience what I learned is that you should be extremely cautious when talking to an Indian male brought up in India. Most of them associate everything with sex. I have not had this experience in talking with 100s of American men. They dont hide, if they like you they tell you and if they dont they again tell you. There is no inbetween.
Over all dont you think our heart is a crazy heart! I dont know what I would do without this crazy heart. Many colors it has that is making my life memorable.
I want to be someone with a dont care attitude. If someone is hurt I feel the hurt more than them. Thats bad. I have so much worries of my own to worry about.
We are all made differently, that should be the reason.
I dont like people who have no concern for others. Yet I am always meeting and socialising with such people. Its no more like school days where we have the choice to choose friends.
For some people, Any fault in their life has justification but in another its a crime. They keep complaining about things in their life but does not want a solution for their problem. I think they enjoy complaining. I have to admit I do complain but I take decisions to solve my problems. We should stop complaining and start making good decisions. Get over the bad and move towards the sun.
I hate gossip. If you come to me with complains about someone else I dont consider you a human. I am not interested in other persons life,including yours. You want to share your problems with me thats ok. I can also pray for your well being, but please dont come to talk about someone else. I dont want your opinion on the other person. I dont want to know his secrets. His marriage. Nothing. Even when I dont want to hear these, people keep saying things and I have to listen many times. Thank fully I have a gift, I only hear what I want to hear and keep only that in my memory.
I met a man who said there are so many fans for you. hhahahahaha...I really wanted to laugh out loud when he said that. Wish I was in college. If someone would have told me then these lines, I would have been on clouds. But now life has taught me better. I walk on burning coal. Everyday I am scared about tomorrow and having fans is something laughable.
From one of my experience what I learned is that you should be extremely cautious when talking to an Indian male brought up in India. Most of them associate everything with sex. I have not had this experience in talking with 100s of American men. They dont hide, if they like you they tell you and if they dont they again tell you. There is no inbetween.
Over all dont you think our heart is a crazy heart! I dont know what I would do without this crazy heart. Many colors it has that is making my life memorable.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Its been few days since I wrote something. I want to write about men and women. As kids female of the human species grow mentally faster than the men. A female child is more curious about sex than their male counterpart. Female matures faster than the male. That is the reason that many men in marriage are older than their wives. But age brings stagnation to the mental growth.
You must be wondering why I am writng this. I am always studying people around. and each day I learn new things.
Once women turn 30 plus they are more interested in care compassion and all those stuff than sex. But men of that age dont understand that language. If you smile at them they think its a sexual invitation. unfortunately they dont understand the woman psycology. A man of 40 generally would understand a woman of 38.
You must be wondering why I am writng this. I am always studying people around. and each day I learn new things.
Once women turn 30 plus they are more interested in care compassion and all those stuff than sex. But men of that age dont understand that language. If you smile at them they think its a sexual invitation. unfortunately they dont understand the woman psycology. A man of 40 generally would understand a woman of 38.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Vultures
I wanted to write this for sometime now. Wondering how mean or selfish people can be. Few people were leaving office since their contract got over. It was not a fun day at all. We all know that as consultants we got to move on once our contract is done and look for another. But this market is tough. So we are always unsure whether we have a job later or not.
So as few of the colleagues were leaving I went to say goodbye. Seeing people crying and saying their good byes I was really overwhelmed and out of the crowd this man comes for a hug saying he is also leaving. Not in my senses I give him a hug and said bye. After that he says he is not leaving and laughs. I think it was the most evil laugh I have ever heard. As if I stole a hug hahaha.
I cant believe people take advantage of others in worse situations. Now I have the worse feeling for this guy.
Friend dont be like me. Always be on gaurd even in worse situation. Know that even when on death bed there are vultures who wait for your flesh. Be wise. I know sometimes our body does not react as fast as your mind. But practise, train your mind and your body to be equally sharp.
Please dont misunderstand me. I value a caring hug from anyone who is thinking the best for you. But someone taking advantage of it is horrible.
So as few of the colleagues were leaving I went to say goodbye. Seeing people crying and saying their good byes I was really overwhelmed and out of the crowd this man comes for a hug saying he is also leaving. Not in my senses I give him a hug and said bye. After that he says he is not leaving and laughs. I think it was the most evil laugh I have ever heard. As if I stole a hug hahaha.
I cant believe people take advantage of others in worse situations. Now I have the worse feeling for this guy.
Friend dont be like me. Always be on gaurd even in worse situation. Know that even when on death bed there are vultures who wait for your flesh. Be wise. I know sometimes our body does not react as fast as your mind. But practise, train your mind and your body to be equally sharp.
Please dont misunderstand me. I value a caring hug from anyone who is thinking the best for you. But someone taking advantage of it is horrible.
Friday, June 5, 2009
Business Requirements
Test Plan
Test Cases
Test Execution
Issue Log
Defect Verification
Retest the test case
Sign off on the test case
Let me give you an example. I need a dress. I have something in my mind regarding the type of dress I want, the occasion or the purpose for which I want the dress, the size I would fit in etc. So I go with this idea to the tailoring shop.
I present the requirement to the tailor. Tailor puts the req into his book - the size is measured and a rough design is made.
This design and measurement is taken by Using this design he marks the cloth
Test Plan
Test Cases
Test Execution
Issue Log
Defect Verification
Retest the test case
Sign off on the test case
Let me give you an example. I need a dress. I have something in my mind regarding the type of dress I want, the occasion or the purpose for which I want the dress, the size I would fit in etc. So I go with this idea to the tailoring shop.
I present the requirement to the tailor. Tailor puts the req into his book - the size is measured and a rough design is made.
This design and measurement is taken by Using this design he marks the cloth
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