I have two wonderful kids. A girl and a boy. There is a 17 year difference between the two. I love these two with all my heart and soul. I live for these ones.
You must use all of your life. Life is hard but that is what makes it sweet and a journey. Make the most of it because from my shore its very short and time runs quickly. Like ice cream. You must devour it before it melts. It is so beautiful. Don't mess it up.
You must make a plan as young as possible and know the plan. Assess the plan. Make changes along the way to adjust as needed. Plans will sometimes change but that is okay. Life is not perfect but the idea of making a plan for yourself is that you are not dwelling the dark of life or making others make the decision for you.
Always dream and act big. Make your dreams a reality. Make sure to dream of things you are willing to put effort to achieve. Day dreaming for pleasure is ok but don't make that your profession or life's purpose.
Know money is important so make that as much as you can. Later if you think you don't want it or if it is no use to you then donate to a good cause. Don't divert to corrupt means to make this because at the end of the day you will caught by yourself or someone else.
In life first thing is health. Then comes wealth. Followed by fulfilling your thirst for whatever that makes you feel whole.
Aim big. Don't cut yourself short in anyway. Don't say negative things to yourself such as you are not good or this is a failure. Imagine someone else telling you this. When you say these to yourself the mind without your knowledge is going to make this your reality. Appreciate yourself always even in your failure.
Learn to be confident. This happens when you learn to appreciate yourself and set yourself up for success. Involve in things that you know you can be successful in and put your whole self to it. Learn thing you think you want to try out.
Don't waste your time trying to please others. Respect everyone but keep them outside your fence. You don't have to be others hero but learn to be your hero first.
Life is too short so try to do the best at what you can and leave the rest.
Don't be too nice. Nice people cause the most accidents on the road. Be wise. Be sharp.
Learn early and apply life lessons fast.
Your youth is very important to you. Make sure you start planning your life just then. Don't wait for later.
Don't call yourself poor or try to remain in poverty. Poor will always be poor. Learn to always climb out of it.
Don't settle for less. If you think that is happening to you then get out of it. Its your life and no one else's.
In life you cannot satisfy everyone. Sometimes it will hurt others but that is okay but never hurt someone purposefully to hurt them.
Learn to succeed in all endeavors. If you fail in some that is okay use that learning as a stepping stone to the next milestone.
Sometimes some paths you take may not be for you. Don't spend too much time on that path. Learn to acknowledge this and move to the next path.
I don't believe in try try and try unless you really want it. Try twice and if this is not for you take a look at something that may be for you. This does not mean to quit easily. Use your judgement. Here what I mean is some people may not have a talent in singing like really bad even after studying this a lot. They keep trying to succeed here without understanding that they cant sing well. Its your job to recognize what you are early and make use of it.
I want you to go to higher levels of education in all walks. I don't expect an Einstein out of you. But a good social creature able to make use of time and find happiness as a by product.
Don't waste your time. I am not expecting you to be preachers that says "God saved me from my wretched life" after living in wretchedly.
Don't waste time searching for happiness its always relative to what your doing. You pass an exam you are happy you get married you are happy you finish something you are happy. So stop making happiness as your goal.
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