Saturday, January 9, 2021

My Children 2

 Making most of your given time. In my eyes and view point every living being is here to procreate and to move their species forward. There are no other destined purpose for anyone that in my life that I have seen. It is our duty to find something purposeful to make our life worthwhile and to look forward to each day to carry out what we have decided to do. This brings meaning to our life. 

note: I mentioned we are here to procreate but please be responsible. I know a few people who consider themselves successful by the number of kids they can produce but please don't be one of them. Children are a life time wonderful commitment so make sure to be responsible to take care of them and you should have the means, time and wisdom to take this on yourself else don't have children. 

Learn early in life what and who you are. It is not that difficult. From your childhood you will know what you really like to do other than being lazy or whiling away your time. As humans we are like trees. We don't like to do much. So be mindful of this urge. Keep yourself calm and know your mind. There will be things you will always know you like and want to pursue. Evaluate your urges. See how they weigh on your present and future. Let me make this very simple. Say you enjoy music and is thinking of pursuing this as a career. Then find out what you like about music. Do want to learn an instrument? Do you want to pursue singing. How good do you think you are? How good you think others think you are? And how much you long to pursue this? How can you successfully make a living out of this? Do you feel this will keep you passionate for a long time? Make a plan B just in case. In life there should always be an emergency exit. These are steps to take when deciding a career. However to pursue something you like to keep as hobby go ahead and work on things you enjoy. 

I digress. So find what makes you happy physically and emotionally and then keep working at it. Don't idle yourself. 

Make the best of the given technology. Education in today's world is very cheap. You can get that from anywhere however social skill can only be learned by being part for a community such as a school where you don't get to choose a lot such as the characters you will be interacting. This will mold your character to build you up for your future. Here you will learn to know your stand and how to behave in different situation without forgetting who you are. 

Don't be anxious for anything. Don't stress out a lot. In life that is not worth much and you will lose you time in life if you do that. Learn very early in life to make the best of time. When you are young in age you will think you have a long way but as an older person I can tell you time in life is not enough. And there is a lot to explore. Wasting time worrying about things is not worth it. 

So now back to making the most of your time. How? First thing to do is respect time. It is a one of the most valuable gift you have been given in life. Get up as early as possible to get the best of the day. Take time to enjoy your surroundings. Appreciate and respect life around you and every where. Do not engage in things that you cannot relate to and do not get involved with anyone that you do not find compatibility with. In unavoidable situation do indulge much with them, just do you work and move forward. Have a hand in making mother earth last longer in all its glory. Enjoy the best of the sun as much as you can. Find your desires that you want to work on for the day and do that. Do not procrastinate. Be the master of your mind. Make it your slave and let it work for you. End the day with sunset. Never forget to enjoy a good night sleep. 

Look at life as a sunshine. Smile and welcome it. It will treat you well. That is how the universe is. Know life wont be easy but even then universe will give you hope and happiness if you treat her well. 


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