Children are a blessing

Children are a blessing. The question is what makes someone eligible to have and bring up kids? There is so much that goes into bringing up a successful human being. Parenting should be a privilege just like a drivers license. You don't get to drive legally without an active license that you received after proper training. This does not mean we are all perfect parallel park experts still better than the ones without any driving lessons taking a car out into the main busy road. If a small thing like driving needs a license, drinking has an age limit, why not having kids? 

Some people are desperate to increase the count of kids they have. Its really surprising. Many of them cannot even afford proper food or buy clothes for the little ones.

I love kids. They are so adorable especially ones own. The peace and happiness raising them cannot be compared to any other. If I could I would love to keep having wonderful babies.  I don't have the means to take care of them. Money does not grow on trees. I am a parent who needs to see her kids through college and life as much as I can. Can you afford the college fee or are you going to depend on financial aid which is paid by other citizens to the govt. That money should go to people who actually need it. Our kids are our life time commitment. They need love and more. 

We should be responsible for the little ones. We should have an idea of what we can do to help them grow well in the society. Food and shelter alone is not enough for kids. They need protection, food, shelter, clothing, quality time with parents and there are many more expenses for these little ones if you are trying to bring them up to live in the main society!

Hopefully and prayerfully our children grow up to help the society, assist in helping goodwill and other organization for the helpless and not have to depend on these institutes for their living. 

Its amazing to have kids. They are so much fun. So I understand why we love having more of these little beautiful blessings. They bring peace and calm to most minds. I can say this for me.  However having kids because of these does not make any sense when you cannot easily clothe yourself.