parenting

i hear people screaming esp in US(Indians)...its very dificult to grow kids right, here in the US..i ask, dont they have good kids here?...i am sure they do..its the technique that u use to develop the kid that matters.
i keep watching kids their moves, language etc...as kids they are just reflection of their parents...some of them very shy( parents very protective...dont give confidence to the kids), some kids very smart unfortunately parents are ready to do everything for them...there is one lady here, her daughter, she is extermely very smart...she comes for dance class along with my daughter...i tell u that kid is very smart for her age but each time a new step is taught in class, before the teacher can give instructions, the mother barges in i will teach her at home...i mean this unknowingly is going to form a thought in the mind of the kids MY MOM WILL DO FOR ME. this is good in many areas but not much as it s going to hamper the kids confidence...
parenting is not an easy skill as giving birth to a child ...you dont need 24/7 attention to the kid esp after 3...but when u watch watch carefully..and learn about ur child...many of us parents dont really know our kids y b'cos we dont give PROPER attention when needed...
i see parents wanting the kids sing on stage dance on stage etc when the kid has absolutely no talent in...they dont really see what the child is good at..
its the responsibility of the parent to discover his child and develop the child accordingly. its in reality very easy if u r sharp and watchful and has a desire to grow ur child healthy.
what ur child id is what u have put in as manure to him as a child....all of us are what we were brought up as.....we are first reflection of our childhood...so parents have to take very good care to grow the kid well...its a huge great responsibility....please use it cautiously if u want a healthy happy adult....rememeber ur kids key is in ur hands till she or he is 13..till that time u help develop her well...