Along with you

I am not the most patient nor easy person in the world to deal with. I am a fast mover and very quick at my feet. This is not only a good thing but could be a dangerous thing to. I am very impulsive but I do think as I am moving ahead in my life. 

There are many things I love about you and many things I don't like about you but I know I can manage the dislikes because your care to our family is more than anything that I could ask for. You are a selfless person always there for me. For you family comes first. 

I want to grow old with you happy and content. I have shared my views of life with you. How I want to live and retire with you. I hope and need that happen in our life. Hope you share the same dream as me. 

Life is hard. But what makes it exciting is that it is challenging. I found my love after a very long search. There were so many ups and downs in the search. I learned a bit on the search. I understood the search is a different shoe for different age groups. That's for another time. 

I finally found my husband to share my life with. Someone to share the scenes and thoughts with. It feels awesome. I don't feel lonely that way. 

There are also people who says when you stop trying to look for someone you will unexpectedly find it. This is BS is what I will say. Seek and you shall find is what I will go with. 

Again philosophy is great to hang on the wall but when applying in life do ingest it with a pinch of salt. 

I love my man and respect him because he values me. You make me feel important. You make me feel good about myself and us. I learn everyday new things from you. Your patience,  persistence, love and respect for me. Everything is new to me. Everyday I learn more good things with you. 

You brought a lot of changes to my life. There are so many things I have learned about myself. Good things. I am a better person today because of you. You did not change me but helped me realize the goodness in me and makes me a better person everyday. I am able to appreciate myself more today than yesterday. 

Lots of love to my husband Tim Chirdon. 

My Children 2

 Making most of your given time. In my eyes and view point every living being is here to procreate and to move their species forward. There are no other destined purpose for anyone that in my life that I have seen. It is our duty to find something purposeful to make our life worthwhile and to look forward to each day to carry out what we have decided to do. This brings meaning to our life. 

note: I mentioned we are here to procreate but please be responsible. I know a few people who consider themselves successful by the number of kids they can produce but please don't be one of them. Children are a life time wonderful commitment so make sure to be responsible to take care of them and you should have the means, time and wisdom to take this on yourself else don't have children. 

Learn early in life what and who you are. It is not that difficult. From your childhood you will know what you really like to do other than being lazy or whiling away your time. As humans we are like trees. We don't like to do much. So be mindful of this urge. Keep yourself calm and know your mind. There will be things you will always know you like and want to pursue. Evaluate your urges. See how they weigh on your present and future. Let me make this very simple. Say you enjoy music and is thinking of pursuing this as a career. Then find out what you like about music. Do want to learn an instrument? Do you want to pursue singing. How good do you think you are? How good you think others think you are? And how much you long to pursue this? How can you successfully make a living out of this? Do you feel this will keep you passionate for a long time? Make a plan B just in case. In life there should always be an emergency exit. These are steps to take when deciding a career. However to pursue something you like to keep as hobby go ahead and work on things you enjoy. 

I digress. So find what makes you happy physically and emotionally and then keep working at it. Don't idle yourself. 

Make the best of the given technology. Education in today's world is very cheap. You can get that from anywhere however social skill can only be learned by being part for a community such as a school where you don't get to choose a lot such as the characters you will be interacting. This will mold your character to build you up for your future. Here you will learn to know your stand and how to behave in different situation without forgetting who you are. 

Don't be anxious for anything. Don't stress out a lot. In life that is not worth much and you will lose you time in life if you do that. Learn very early in life to make the best of time. When you are young in age you will think you have a long way but as an older person I can tell you time in life is not enough. And there is a lot to explore. Wasting time worrying about things is not worth it. 

So now back to making the most of your time. How? First thing to do is respect time. It is a one of the most valuable gift you have been given in life. Get up as early as possible to get the best of the day. Take time to enjoy your surroundings. Appreciate and respect life around you and every where. Do not engage in things that you cannot relate to and do not get involved with anyone that you do not find compatibility with. In unavoidable situation do indulge much with them, just do you work and move forward. Have a hand in making mother earth last longer in all its glory. Enjoy the best of the sun as much as you can. Find your desires that you want to work on for the day and do that. Do not procrastinate. Be the master of your mind. Make it your slave and let it work for you. End the day with sunset. Never forget to enjoy a good night sleep. 

Look at life as a sunshine. Smile and welcome it. It will treat you well. That is how the universe is. Know life wont be easy but even then universe will give you hope and happiness if you treat her well. 

My children - 1

 I have two wonderful kids. A girl and a boy. There is a 17 year difference between the two. I love these two with all my heart and soul. I live for these ones. 

You must use all of your life. Life is hard but that is what makes it sweet and a journey. Make the most of it because from my shore its very short and time runs quickly. Like ice cream. You must devour it before it melts. It is so beautiful. Don't mess it up. 

You must make a plan as young as possible and know the plan. Assess the plan. Make changes along the way to adjust as needed. Plans will sometimes change but that is okay. Life is not perfect but the idea of making a plan for yourself is that you are not dwelling the dark of life or making others make the decision for you. 

Always dream and act big. Make your dreams a reality. Make sure to dream of things you are willing to put effort to achieve. Day dreaming for pleasure is ok but don't make that your profession or life's purpose. 

Know money is important so make that as much as you can. Later if you think you don't want it or if it is no use to you then donate to a good cause. Don't divert to corrupt means to make this because at the end of the day you will caught by yourself or someone else. 

In life first thing is health. Then comes wealth. Followed by fulfilling your thirst for whatever that makes you feel whole. 

Aim big. Don't cut yourself short in anyway. Don't say negative things to yourself such as you are not good or this is a failure. Imagine someone else telling you this. When you say these to yourself the mind without your knowledge is going to make this your reality. Appreciate yourself always even in your failure. 

Learn to be confident. This happens when you learn to appreciate yourself and set yourself up for success. Involve in things that you know you can be successful in and put your whole self to it. Learn thing you think you want to try out. 

Don't waste your time trying to please others. Respect everyone but keep them outside your fence. You don't have to be others hero but learn to be your hero first. 

Life is too short so try to do the best at what you can and leave the rest. 

Don't be too nice. Nice people cause the most accidents on the road. Be wise. Be sharp. 

Learn early and apply life lessons fast. 

Your youth is very important to you. Make sure you start planning your life just then. Don't wait for later. 

Don't call yourself poor or try to remain in poverty. Poor will always be poor. Learn to always climb out of it. 

Don't settle for less. If you think that is happening to you then get out of it. Its your life and no one else's. 

In life you cannot satisfy everyone. Sometimes it will hurt others but that is okay but never hurt someone purposefully to hurt them. 

Learn to succeed in all endeavors. If you fail in some that is okay use that learning as a stepping stone to the next milestone. 

Sometimes some paths you take may not be for you. Don't spend too much time on that path. Learn to acknowledge this and move to the next path. 

I don't believe in try try and try unless you really want it. Try twice and if this is not for you take a look at something that may be for you. This does not mean to quit easily. Use your judgement. Here what I mean is some people may not have a talent in singing like really bad even after studying this a lot. They keep trying to succeed here without understanding that they cant sing well. Its your job to recognize what you are early and make use of it. 

I want you to go to higher levels of education in all walks. I don't expect an Einstein out of you. But a good social creature able to make use of time and find happiness as a by product. 

Don't waste your time. I am not expecting you to be preachers that says "God saved me from my wretched life" after living in wretchedly. 

Don't waste time searching for happiness its always relative to what your doing. You pass an exam you are happy you get married you are happy you finish something you are happy. So stop making happiness as your goal.