1) This thought has been nagging me for a while now. Is n't married people who are not in love more lonely than the others. I mean, they have to pretend to be happy outside their home, sometimes to their kids and yet they are truly not happy. They cannot be in another relationship, it will be considered adultery. They are always trying to adjust with each other. Its a 24/7 arrangement. I was talking to a colleague of mine. He seemed too forward and stuff. When I brought this topic up to him, he was like "Hey, you live in a lala land." There is no love in marriage. Its all an adjustment. Love is there only for the first few years, then we get tired of that. Shocker!
2) Some people really live in their own cocoon. they never realize the struggle others go for them till they are actually faced alone with the situation. I have a very close friend in my life. I have always done things to protect and take care for her. Tried to provide guidance as needed, Took care till 3 years back. Now I know there is someone strong by her side that I can sleep well at night. The thing is, she never realized what was going on. Now when she needs to face the music, she realizes that things were not what she was dreaming it to be. She tells me, I knew something was wrong but not this bad. Wow! Shocker!
3) How unfortunate when dreams get crushed by life!
4) One more thing I learned in life is, beware of advisers. They will kill you by advice but they will never be there to help you when you need it. Stay away from them as much as possible.
5) Try to find positive people and keep them around you. I was in a negative relationship for 8 years and it took me 4 tough years to get back to being positive. Trust me, its very very very difficult to get out of it. Worse than addiction to drugs I guess. It took one lady and one sentence to me to get of this effect. I am so grateful to this lady named Vijaya, just a random colleague. If someone is negative, please run away as far as possible from them. I know its selfish. A situation being bad is ok but when that person keeps making it worse learn to understand the sign. If you are not a therapist, you don't need to be around. God be with you, if its your own.
6) I hate hypocrites. I know we need to be all roses and butterflies many times in front of certain situations but speak your mind when needed. Some people takes this to the extreme. That's dangerous.
7) Have you ever been infatuated with intelligence? I have. lol! You do not feel any attraction to the person but just his thoughts. Crazy right!
8) Learn to respect, honor and love the hands that feed you.
9) For some of us life is not as easy as the Nancy next to us. Yes I feel jealous and crappy at it. Make the best out of the hand that is dealt to you.
2) Some people really live in their own cocoon. they never realize the struggle others go for them till they are actually faced alone with the situation. I have a very close friend in my life. I have always done things to protect and take care for her. Tried to provide guidance as needed, Took care till 3 years back. Now I know there is someone strong by her side that I can sleep well at night. The thing is, she never realized what was going on. Now when she needs to face the music, she realizes that things were not what she was dreaming it to be. She tells me, I knew something was wrong but not this bad. Wow! Shocker!
3) How unfortunate when dreams get crushed by life!
4) One more thing I learned in life is, beware of advisers. They will kill you by advice but they will never be there to help you when you need it. Stay away from them as much as possible.
5) Try to find positive people and keep them around you. I was in a negative relationship for 8 years and it took me 4 tough years to get back to being positive. Trust me, its very very very difficult to get out of it. Worse than addiction to drugs I guess. It took one lady and one sentence to me to get of this effect. I am so grateful to this lady named Vijaya, just a random colleague. If someone is negative, please run away as far as possible from them. I know its selfish. A situation being bad is ok but when that person keeps making it worse learn to understand the sign. If you are not a therapist, you don't need to be around. God be with you, if its your own.
6) I hate hypocrites. I know we need to be all roses and butterflies many times in front of certain situations but speak your mind when needed. Some people takes this to the extreme. That's dangerous.
7) Have you ever been infatuated with intelligence? I have. lol! You do not feel any attraction to the person but just his thoughts. Crazy right!
8) Learn to respect, honor and love the hands that feed you.
9) For some of us life is not as easy as the Nancy next to us. Yes I feel jealous and crappy at it. Make the best out of the hand that is dealt to you.
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